This is a mail I got from one of My Friend and I really liked it and would like to share it with you all …
Read…
DEAR ALL,
4 ALL THOSE WHO R SINGLE AND ALSO THOSE WHO HAVE MINGLED…
Once, there was this guy, who was in love with a gal. She wasn’t the most beautiful and
gorgeous but for him, she was everything
He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him,
“why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not?
First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not”.
He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves her.
One day when he proposed, she rejected him.
His friends thought he would take to alcohol; drugs etc. and ruin his life.
To their surprise, he was not depressed.
When they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied,
“‘why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one
who really loved and cared for her.”
Never Cry for One Who Makes You Cry ! ……….your are most precious to you and your family so be happy and make them happy.
Last but not least ” Love is not heart of life it’s a part of life”
Megha Patel.
04/10/2007 at 8:04 pm Permalink
I dont know why but….
Its like…
I knows “I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one
who really loved and cared for her.â€
I had read these words a lot of time but pata nahin kyon dil inko maanta hi nahin hai.
Aur maan bhi jata hai to kuch na kuch aisa ho jata hia life mein ki woh fir se mere saamne aa jati hai…
If god doesnt want me with her I am not complaining. I m just saying close the chapter why oepning those old pages..woh yaadein…
dil kehta hai…why ..why …why?
If i loved her why cant i have her…
Sorry for these stupid words…
05/10/2007 at 2:12 pm Permalink
Ok.. let us get real ..
as you said “If god doesn’t want me with her….close the chapter why opening those old pages?…”
why dont you take it as a test.. why don’t you think that God is actually taking you test to make you strong enough to fight against you and your feelings.. why don’t you understand what he is trying to tell you … ???
he knows what he is doing .. so be positive.. and if she said no to you.. and still coming in front of you.. try to avoid her… and keep your self busy as much as possible.. make new friends.. hang out with new people.. and see… your life will be just amazing …
14/10/2007 at 9:40 pm Permalink
Very well said Megha!
09/11/2007 at 1:21 am Permalink
well……
life is full of irony…..
u always want something u cannot get…..
and thats basic human tendancy…..
wat u gotta do is….gather up ur will power…and make urself come out of it…..
time is the best healer……
and these are not empty words…..
(i’ve been thro’ all that)
10/11/2007 at 1:22 am Permalink
I strongly believe this …”time is the best healer”
14/07/2008 at 5:17 pm Permalink
what shall i say now after readin all this post…yeah that’s true “time is the best healer”…”love is only part of life”…etc etc….but i can bet that it needs hell lot of strength to cum out of it…m struggelin from past 1.5 yrs…daily searchin n reading thousand pages on net n in books..just to get that strength to forget evrythin…to start ma life as if nothin happened…to see maself smiling again…..yeah! i do believe that god must b having some back-up plan for me..b4 ma hard disk crashes
17/07/2008 at 11:46 pm Permalink
yeh.. keep trying .. and be strong ..this phase of your life is to make you strong.. learn from wht u are going through… and u will easily come out of it …