Its not her fault that her sister ran away and got married to a person she like, its not her fault at all, then why should she suffer ?
I am sorry dear, I just cant keep mum.
Just because Pallavi’s sister ran away, because her parents were not ready to get her married with a person she likes, Pallavi had to marry a person who is too elder thn her, its not a question about getting married to an elder person, its about Pallavi’s orthodox parents and relatives who found her such a kind of person who is a piece of shit.
People think that if Pallavi’s elder sister has ran away ,even she will be like her sister only [character less], and that is why people never got any good proposal of a guy of her age, and finally after a lot of compromise she agreed to get married to this guy.
Obviously in the beginning she was really happy, but now her husband has started showing his real colours,
- he never speaks to her[ why ? because he is moody ]
- he never let her speak in front of guests [ why ? because he
does not like it ]
- his mother never tell him or shouts at him because of his such
behavior [ why ? because whn he was a kid she never shouted at him, because he is like tht only ]
- he never even looks at her in the bedroom [ Why ? Because
by the time Pallavi finishes her work and enters in her room,
he will make a point that he is already asleep,he is moody ]
- he never gives money to Pallavi [ why ? because he will do
what he feels like ]
- he does not even know in which standard his daugher is[ why
? because if he is not talking to his wife, wht do you expect
him to know about his daughter ]
after all this , Pallavi is still living with him,
WHY ?
Because when afer 3-4 years of this mental taurture she told her father, “Daddy i cant live in this situation with this person, please help me”
Her father’s answer was - “Dear, i cant help you with anything now, nothing is in my hand, i am help less ,all i can do is give you money as much as you want but you will have to stay with him only”
Shit to such orthodox people.
Shit to such husbands.
Shit to such parents who says that i am help less and cant help you in such situation.
At first place why and how did you give your daughter in such a $&!4@#* persons hand and then how can you say i am helpless.
Megha Patel.
13/08/2007 at 11:04 am Permalink
What to say megha, this is indian family but how can a father says like that.Even pallavi can take money from his father and take divorce or simply leave her husband with he daughter.
Thinks about future of daughter in this situation?
13/08/2007 at 3:10 pm Permalink
Piyush , that is what i am thinking.. why the hell is she not leaving this man… she had told me “never love anyone more thn yourself” …now can you imagin how she is living thr …
her father said i will give u as much money as you want .. i wonder why he didnt say u come back i will take care of you and your daughter .. i know its easy to say all this .. but if i was thr i will never say this to my daughter wht pallavi’s father has said .. i know its not easy to break such relations so easily.. but i will never let my daughter live with this man..
whn your daughter comes to you asking help from you that means she does not want to stay with tht man … and whn in the end u say u stay with him.. wht can she do .. if i was on pallavi’s place i would have taken divorce witht tht person …
13/08/2007 at 4:24 pm Permalink
her father hadn’t said coz he is already in pain due to pallavi’s elder sister and now she…
may be he is just broken from inside
but pallavi i thinks she must take divorce and live independent.
her parents can give her moral support and financial support
At least not for herself but for her daughter she can do this
[Offtopic]
If u be at pallavi’s place to aapne to marry hi nahin karni thi
13/08/2007 at 5:22 pm Permalink
yes very true.. i will never marry a person like this .. i dont care about the so called “samaj”… i will stay alone the whole life till i find a right person i want.. after all its my life..
she never thought all this because she stays in village .. and girls thr are not as fwd as the girls in Bombay.. even thought they are well educated…
i have many more examples.. i want to post thm too.. but all in good time
17/08/2007 at 4:46 pm Permalink
Err .. Who is Pallavi ..?
17/08/2007 at 6:40 pm Permalink
one of my cousins
22/08/2007 at 1:26 pm Permalink
yup it indeed is disgusting to have such orthodox rules n families.
thankfully its only mental torture.. what if physical torture was also there.. I guess you can find lots of cases in which physical torture is also present and ppl are again helpless…
22/08/2007 at 3:23 pm Permalink
yeh. i know .. the reason for all this is education .. no or less education causes all this …