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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-12754</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 06:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did not read the whole blog. It reminded me of my ex and her name is Megha. I loved her and I still love her. But we are married to different people. I would like to meet her. But can she talk to me in front of her husband?Could you advice me on this matter and send me a mail to my id  happierdays@rediffmail.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did not read the whole blog. It reminded me of my ex and her name is Megha. I loved her and I still love her. But we are married to different people. I would like to meet her. But can she talk to me in front of her husband?Could you advice me on this matter and send me a mail to my id  <a href="mailto:happierdays@rediffmail.com">happierdays@rediffmail.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Megha</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-12343</link>
		<dc:creator>Megha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 18:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol... yeh will keep posting .. and u keep reading :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol&#8230; yeh will keep posting .. and u keep reading <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Gaurav</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-12329</link>
		<dc:creator>Gaurav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 12:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I started reading ur posts megha at 3:00 PM n now it&#039;s 6:00 PM..pata hi nahi laga time kaise nikal gaya..n with this post i completed reading almost all ur posts except those kitchen recipes ;)...2day while surfin in office i landed up on ur blog...it was so intresting that i couldn&#039;t stop maself readin them all...now m going 4 ma coffee break...

ma all colleagues r traumatized seein me sittin on ma desk continuously from past 4 hrs. ;)...


Nice job Megha n Deep...Keep posting :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I started reading ur posts megha at 3:00 PM n now it&#8217;s 6:00 PM..pata hi nahi laga time kaise nikal gaya..n with this post i completed reading almost all ur posts except those kitchen recipes <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8230;2day while surfin in office i landed up on ur blog&#8230;it was so intresting that i couldn&#8217;t stop maself readin them all&#8230;now m going 4 ma coffee break&#8230;</p>
<p>ma all colleagues r traumatized seein me sittin on ma desk continuously from past 4 hrs. <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8230;</p>
<p>Nice job Megha n Deep&#8230;Keep posting <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Megha</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-7097</link>
		<dc:creator>Megha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 06:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahahaha.. good job... 

well yeh its all individual views ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahahaha.. good job&#8230; </p>
<p>well yeh its all individual views &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Piyush</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-6697</link>
		<dc:creator>Piyush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 05:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok mam,

But its all individual views

I m not saying girls behave like boys

I m saying that why u have such a inseurity in love
Feel love like other stuffs

I know its very special feel but...

It bring trust u have in ur partner a blind trust
A trust for lifetime.

I m feeling a lot of mess up on this topic

logging out

bye...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok mam,</p>
<p>But its all individual views</p>
<p>I m not saying girls behave like boys</p>
<p>I m saying that why u have such a inseurity in love<br />
Feel love like other stuffs</p>
<p>I know its very special feel but&#8230;</p>
<p>It bring trust u have in ur partner a blind trust<br />
A trust for lifetime.</p>
<p>I m feeling a lot of mess up on this topic</p>
<p>logging out</p>
<p>bye&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Megha</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-6695</link>
		<dc:creator>Megha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 05:54:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmmm.. it does .. but if Girls start behaving like guys... thn how will this world move ?.. thr will be no love in this world .. so its all meant to be like this... and we have to accept whatever it is  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmmm.. it does .. but if Girls start behaving like guys&#8230; thn how will this world move ?.. thr will be no love in this world .. so its all meant to be like this&#8230; and we have to accept whatever it is  <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Piyush</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-6659</link>
		<dc:creator>Piyush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 04:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No offense

but why always girls have to adjust

See if darshan had a Ex gf and now she will be her gud frd

Madhavi will never say &quot;Darshan dont meet her anymore&quot;

Coz girls always trust(may be blind trust) guys

But guys; they always feels insecurity in their relationships I dont know why

thats what happened in this case

Darshan is so much insecure about Anil
He forgot 

Madhavi was all confused to decide weather she is thinking right or not, [Whom to ask?, this was the biggest question in front of Madhavi] , the only person she remember was Anil, she smsâ€™ed Anil, â€ if you are free I want to talk to you, please call me whenever you are freeâ€, Anil called her to talk, Madhavi asked him ,â€Can you and me fall in love again? â€œ, â€œI mean can you or me think about someone else? â€œ,â€ is it possible that we can love someone else too?â€œ. The questions were strange for Anil; it was difficult for him to say yes. But he had to, and he replied herâ€ Yes, we canâ€œ, then Madhavi told Anil everything about Darshan and how she feels about him, and Anil told him â€œYou go on with your life, if you really like Darshan, please go aheadâ€œ.

It was anil who solves madhavi&#039;s confusion about darshan

I dont know what it is but i feel Friendship is always better than Love

I means to say
&quot;If I have to choose between true friends and love I choose to be her true friend untill we got married&quot;

Now darshan is trying to overcome madhavi&#039;s mind her freedom as a normal person

Why he decide whom she met or not

She can met anyone she wanna 
trust says &quot;Dont lie to your partner&quot;
It never says u be dependent on him for each and every decision of ur life

Pata nahin kyon but i Still feels darshan is wrong...make sense?:)

Piyush</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No offense</p>
<p>but why always girls have to adjust</p>
<p>See if darshan had a Ex gf and now she will be her gud frd</p>
<p>Madhavi will never say &#8220;Darshan dont meet her anymore&#8221;</p>
<p>Coz girls always trust(may be blind trust) guys</p>
<p>But guys; they always feels insecurity in their relationships I dont know why</p>
<p>thats what happened in this case</p>
<p>Darshan is so much insecure about Anil<br />
He forgot </p>
<p>Madhavi was all confused to decide weather she is thinking right or not, [Whom to ask?, this was the biggest question in front of Madhavi] , the only person she remember was Anil, she smsâ€™ed Anil, â€ if you are free I want to talk to you, please call me whenever you are freeâ€, Anil called her to talk, Madhavi asked him ,â€Can you and me fall in love again? â€œ, â€œI mean can you or me think about someone else? â€œ,â€ is it possible that we can love someone else too?â€œ. The questions were strange for Anil; it was difficult for him to say yes. But he had to, and he replied herâ€ Yes, we canâ€œ, then Madhavi told Anil everything about Darshan and how she feels about him, and Anil told him â€œYou go on with your life, if you really like Darshan, please go aheadâ€œ.</p>
<p>It was anil who solves madhavi&#8217;s confusion about darshan</p>
<p>I dont know what it is but i feel Friendship is always better than Love</p>
<p>I means to say<br />
&#8220;If I have to choose between true friends and love I choose to be her true friend untill we got married&#8221;</p>
<p>Now darshan is trying to overcome madhavi&#8217;s mind her freedom as a normal person</p>
<p>Why he decide whom she met or not</p>
<p>She can met anyone she wanna<br />
trust says &#8220;Dont lie to your partner&#8221;<br />
It never says u be dependent on him for each and every decision of ur life</p>
<p>Pata nahin kyon but i Still feels darshan is wrong&#8230;make sense?:)</p>
<p>Piyush</p>
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		<title>By: Megha</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-6438</link>
		<dc:creator>Megha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2007 17:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Saying no to meet the EX... does not mean that Darshan does not trust her .. he has trust in her .. but as i have mentioned .. he wants her security.. he loves her so much that he does not want her to be hurt by Anil in any ways . and that is the reason he does not like her to be meeting or talking to Anil.. and what if even Madhavi is fine with not talking or meeting Anil now ? .. the things are easy .. right ? :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Saying no to meet the EX&#8230; does not mean that Darshan does not trust her .. he has trust in her .. but as i have mentioned .. he wants her security.. he loves her so much that he does not want her to be hurt by Anil in any ways . and that is the reason he does not like her to be meeting or talking to Anil.. and what if even Madhavi is fine with not talking or meeting Anil now ? .. the things are easy .. right ? <img src='http://www.meghasays.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Piyush</title>
		<link>http://www.meghasays.com/2006/09/11/can-exs-be-friends-again/comment-page-1/#comment-6120</link>
		<dc:creator>Piyush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2007 08:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

Sorry for so late posting

Just got link from Archana&#039;s recent post

â€œIts not that â€œEXâ€™s can not be FRIENDS again â€¦ Itâ€™s that People donâ€™t let them be FRIENDS again .â€

I am not agree with this 

I feel People are the person you choose after u lose vary vary sensitive relationship in this universe

In your story

Anil is 100% right

He directly said we can&#039;t continue and finish from his side
It was madhavi who called him and he accepted that frds relationship(best relationship on earth)

Madhavi was 100% right 
She khows she can&#039;t continue with anil so she denied and left him.
But when she has to take a decision about her life and love she called anil as a friend(usually ppl call person most close them)

What I can say about Darshan
Darshan hmmm  I think he loves her so much that it can&#039;t be described 
But if he loves her so much 
    why he dont have trust in her.
    Why he is not trusting her words when she said Anil   
    is only my friend
    it was she who told Darshan that she was in love with Anil. 
What if she said anil is my gud friend and never told darshan that they had a relationship in past

I think then darshan will have no problem in their meeting but now 
They are Ex Bf and GF Darshan had some problem without any reason(lagta to aise hi hai)

Its the bad mentality of darshan not Exs

Madhavi have to think about darshan as her life partner
can she allow a person in her life who is not trusting her at all
Should she allow him(I don&#039;t think so)

I feel after all this madhavi have to eith convince darshan or seriously think(about break up or something else) with darshan


I feel every relationship is on trust
and Trust is major factor in LOVE

if you can&#039;t trust ur partner dont love her
If u love her trust her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>Sorry for so late posting</p>
<p>Just got link from Archana&#8217;s recent post</p>
<p>â€œIts not that â€œEXâ€™s can not be FRIENDS again â€¦ Itâ€™s that People donâ€™t let them be FRIENDS again .â€</p>
<p>I am not agree with this </p>
<p>I feel People are the person you choose after u lose vary vary sensitive relationship in this universe</p>
<p>In your story</p>
<p>Anil is 100% right</p>
<p>He directly said we can&#8217;t continue and finish from his side<br />
It was madhavi who called him and he accepted that frds relationship(best relationship on earth)</p>
<p>Madhavi was 100% right<br />
She khows she can&#8217;t continue with anil so she denied and left him.<br />
But when she has to take a decision about her life and love she called anil as a friend(usually ppl call person most close them)</p>
<p>What I can say about Darshan<br />
Darshan hmmm  I think he loves her so much that it can&#8217;t be described<br />
But if he loves her so much<br />
    why he dont have trust in her.<br />
    Why he is not trusting her words when she said Anil<br />
    is only my friend<br />
    it was she who told Darshan that she was in love with Anil.<br />
What if she said anil is my gud friend and never told darshan that they had a relationship in past</p>
<p>I think then darshan will have no problem in their meeting but now<br />
They are Ex Bf and GF Darshan had some problem without any reason(lagta to aise hi hai)</p>
<p>Its the bad mentality of darshan not Exs</p>
<p>Madhavi have to think about darshan as her life partner<br />
can she allow a person in her life who is not trusting her at all<br />
Should she allow him(I don&#8217;t think so)</p>
<p>I feel after all this madhavi have to eith convince darshan or seriously think(about break up or something else) with darshan</p>
<p>I feel every relationship is on trust<br />
and Trust is major factor in LOVE</p>
<p>if you can&#8217;t trust ur partner dont love her<br />
If u love her trust her.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Archana&#8217;s blog&#8230; &#187; Unknown relations&#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2007 09:18:53 +0000</pubDate>
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